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Best gifts to Sebastian in Stardew Valley You can only gift items to a specific character two times per week, so there should be enough time to gather at least one of the loved items for Sebastian, but you can always gift liked or neutral items in case you don't find any of the loved ones. Gifting a loved item will award more points towards the relationship and thus unlock hearts faster. If your gift is a disliked or hated item, you'll lose points instead. Here are how many points you receive or lose depending on what type of item you gift in Stardew Valley: Love: +80 points Liked: +45 points Neutral: +20 points Disliked: - 20 points Hate: - 40 points Some items have the same reaction from all the characters and are known as universal loves, universal likes, universal dislikes, and so on. We'll focus on only Sebastian's preferences in this guide. Loves Item Where to find Frozen Tear The Mines Sashimi Cooking (Any Fish) Void Egg Void Chicken Obsidian Magma Geode, Omni Geode Pumpkin Soup Cooking Likes Item Where to find Flounder Fishing Quartz The Mines Neutral Item Where to find All Fruits (minus Fruit Tree Fruits and Salmonberry) Varied All Fish (minus Carp, Flounder, Snails) Fishing, Crab Pots All Milks Farming Dislikes Item Where to find Daffodil Foraging during Spring Dandelion Foraging during Spring Leek Foraging during Spring Salmonberry Foraging during Spring Morel Foraging during Spring Wild Horseradish Foraging during Spring Chanterelle Foraging during Fall Common Mushroom Foraging during Fall Hazelnut Foraging during Fall Holly Foraging during Winter Snow Yam Foraging during Winter Winter Root Foraging during Winter Ginger Foraging in Ginger Island Magma Cap Foraging in Volcano Dungeon Purple Mushroom Foraging in The Mines All Flowers (except Poppy) Foraging Hates Item Location Clay Tilling Farmer's Lunch Cooking Complete Breakfast Cooking Omelet Cooking Pi\u00f1a Colada Beach Resort on Ginger Island All Eggs (except Void Egg) Farming All Artisan Goods (except Coffee, Green Tea and Oil) Varied Where to find Sebastian in Stardew Valley Every character has a schedule they follow in Stardew Valley, so you need to know where Sebastian is, depending on what time of day it is in-game, to talk to him and gift his Frozen Tear, Obsidian, or sashimi. It will be a bit difficult in the beginning since he spends a big part of the day inside his room, and you can only access it after reaching two hearts with him. Sebastian follows the same schedule most days, regardless of season, except for the weekend and some special days. He wakes as the store opens, stays in his room working all day, and leaves the house to smoke at the lake after work. On the weekend, he hangs out with friends, and on special days, he can visit the clinic, the night market, and go to the beach. Here is Sebastian's schedule in Stardew Valley: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Sunday Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:30amWorking on his computer 3:00pmIn the kitchen 3:30pmLeaves the kitchen 4:10pmWorking on his computer 6:30pmGoes to the lake 7:30pmArrives at the lake and smokes 9:30pmGoes back home Thursday (After unlocking Railroad) Time Where 9:00amIn bed 10:30amWorking on his computer 2:00pmGoes to the train station 6:20pmSmoking by the east side of the train station 8:10pm Smoking by the west side of the train station 9:30pmGoes back home Friday Time Where 9:00amIn bed 10:30amWorking on his computer 3:00pmGoes to the Saloon 5:20pmPlaying pool with Sam in the Saloon 9:10pmGoes back home Saturday Time Where 9:00amGoes to Sam's house 11:30amHanging out in front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam 1:00pmIn Sam's room 6:00pmGoes to the river with Sam 6:20pmSmoking with Sam at the river 7:30pmGoes back home Summer 4th Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:00amGoes to the clinic 11:50pmIn the clinic's waiting room 1:40pmIn the clinic's exam room 4:00pmGoes back home 11th and 15th of any season (less than six hearts) Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:00amWorking on his computer 12:00pmAbigail sits on the couch and Sebastian stands near it 5:00pmGoes to the kitchen 6:00pmGoes back to the computer 9:30pm Goes to sleep Winter 16th Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:30amWorking on his computer 3:00pmGoes to the kitchen 3:30pmGoes back to the computer 5:00pmGoes to the Night Market 1:30pm Goes back home Rainy Days There are two possible routines on rainy days. Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:30amGoes to the beach 1:30pmHanging out near the fish shop 5:00pmGoes back home 7:40pmLays in bed Time Where9:00amIn bed 10:30amWorking on his computer 3:00pmGoes to the Saloon 5:20pmIn the arcade at the Saloon 9:10pmGoes back home How to trigger all of Sebastian's cutscenes in Stardew Valley As you develop your relationship and get more hearts, you'll be able to see some cutscenes that show the friendship between Sebastian and the player growing and slowly developing into a romance. If you don't trigger the event, the relationship might stagnate and won't evolve until you trigger the cutscene. Here are all the triggers and their level of friendship with Sebastian: Relationship Trigger Two hearts Enter Sebastian's room when he's there Four hearts Go to the mountain between 11am and 5pm. Six hearts Enter Sebastian's room when he's there Eight hearts Visit the Beach while raining between 12pm and 11pm. 10 hearts Visit the Mountains between 8 pm and 12 am. 14 hearts Go to the mountain while raining between 6am and 7pm. Sometimes, you'll have to make a choice on how you answer the character in a random conversation. You can roleplay and answer what suits you, but you can gain or lose friendship points depending on what you answer. Here's what to answer to get the most points with Sebastian: Dialogue Answers \u201c*yawn*... I was up until 3 reading this new book... Do you read, (Farmer's Name)?\u201d - Sci-fi and Fantasy (+30 friendship) - Yep. The classics. (-30 friendship) - No, I don't read books (-30 friendship) - I like a good Romance (zero effect on friendship) \u201c*sigh*... If gas wasn't so expensive I'd ride my motorcycle to the city today. So what do you do when you aren't working?\u201d - Comic books (+30 friendship) - Shopping (-30 friendship) - Sports (-30 friendship)

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Building a relationship takes effort and commitment in real life and Stardew Valley<\/em>. The best and fastest way to marry Sebastian is by talking to him every day, gifting the items he loves two times a week, and triggering his event cutscenes as you get more hearts.<\/p>

In order to win the heart of the emo programmer\u2014and one of the most sought-after romanceable characters<\/a> in Stardew Valley<\/em>\u2014you’ll have to learn the gifts he loves and the person he is.<\/p>